Saturday, May 4, 2013

Trail Ride Through Neptune Canyon and Some Blogging Thoughts

 

I just realized today that my comments have dropped way off lately. Where I used to receive 15-30 comments, now I’m lucky to receive 6. Oddly, I’m not bothered by this, because when I check the views that each post receives, I discover that upwards of 80-100 people are viewing each of my posts. Although it does feel weird to know I have that many lurkers slinking around.

And it sure is interesting, too. When I owned a horse that caused me all sorts of problems and I was going through a ton of challenges and shared them all, boy howdy! My blog was heavy with comments. But now that my life is mostly happy, and I have the best horse in the entire world, and get to experience so many exciting and fun trail rides with real life friends, my comments have dropped off. It seems to me that people are much happier to comment and give unasked for advice on drama and hardship, but when times are good, they are disappointed and don’t have anything at all to say, not even supportively. Or perhaps these folks are just unhappy in their own lives and just jealous? How revealing this is about the Blogger Community…or perhaps this is just society in general….Hmmmm?!

But I’m not blogging for anyone else anymore. I haven’t blogged for anyone else for over a year now. I don’t care about entertaining anyone with cutesy posts or controversial subjects. Nope. My blog is my own personal journal. It’s a place for me to post my photos and stories. I’m not posting for anyone else, but if anyone else wants to read my posts and enjoy my photos, that’s just fine with me. If y’all want to comment, that would be great! But if y’all just want to remain lurking, that’s fine, too. It’s all the same to me.

So with that said, onwards and upwards to post about the rest of my most awesome, amazing, fun, bucket-list weekend!

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After we left the main canyon trail and the ridge trails, we ascended towards the gap that opened up to the breathtakingly beautiful Neptune Canyon.

Apache may be a bit slow when riding steep trails, but she is a tank, and just motors up with strength, power and perseverance. Apache has such a huge heart and is my willing partner, taking me to places, I might never see on my own. I love her so much.

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When we finally reached the gap, we all climbed up and posed for a photo before dropping down the other side into Neptune Canyon.

Here is my buddy Kendra and I, with our awesome trail horses.

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And then we were riding in Neptune Canyon!

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Apache and I found a different trail to ride, so I could take photos of the ladies in our group from a side angle with the canyon geology as a stunning backdrop.

(From right to left: Karen A., Marsha, Karen R., Latana, and Annette)

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And Casteel and her horse bringing up the rear!

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And Kendra and Janet followed me.

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At the far end of Neptune Canyon there stands a volcanically created structure called The Petrified Sand Dunes. I had ridden another horse named Splendor on this structure last February (February Sweethearts of San Acacia ACTHA Ride ).

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But it was on my Bucket List to ride my own horse on the unique and beautiful Petrified Sand Dunes.

So, without even pausing for a moment, I asked my Apache mare to head up to the sandstone platform below the odd-looking structure. And Apache didn’t pause for a moment and just willingly climbed right up there for me.  

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Let me also add that out of 9 of us, only 4 decided to ride up onto that platform. Some of the riders were too nervous to ride up there, and a couple had horses with shoes, which would have been dangerously slippery to navigate on the downward side.

But Apache never questioned why we were the riding up there alone, and she never balked and tried to go down with the rest of the horses below us. She and I were a team and navigating this new challenge together. I feel honored that my Apache mare willingly accepts my requests and takes on the challenges I give her with courage and heart.   

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I am also so grateful that my friends were taking photos of that special moment. My friend Latana took this amazing photo and it just takes my breath away each time I look at it and remember that moment.

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When we reached the top of the sandstone platform, we paused for a moment to take it all in, and I could feel Apache trembling beneath me. Was my mare’s muscles tired or was she trembling from fear?

I took a moment to encourage my mare, and love on her. And I told her how amazing she is. And then I felt her stop trembling.

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When I asked her to scoot down the steep downward side of the sandstone platform, I could feel some trepidation from my Apache mare, but I told her I knew she could do it, and I cheered her on patiently. Then Apache carefully and slowly worked her way down that slope, while I focused on my balance so as not to throw her out of balance.

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Apache was such a total rock star! I am so proud of her! And I am so appreciative to her for helping me reach another special Bucket List moment. My Apache mare truly gives me wings so I can fly!

Ok, so after we finished up exploring the Petrified Sand Dunes, we all decided to head over to the Great Wall of Warmth, so named because during the winter, the massive, tall rock wall emanates wonderful warmth from the sun.

It wasn’t cold the day we were there, but there is a cool little narrow trail that skirts the base of that wall and we all thought it would be great to get up there and pose for a photo, too. I handed my camera over to my friend Janet (the gal in the middle in the photo below)

But after the Petrified Sand Dune Experience, Apache’s courage was lost and she didn’t think that riding up the steep slope to reach that tiny trail, that we couldn’t even see from our vantage point, was a good idea.

So, she and I did have a brief conversation with encouraging words, as you can see below, and she found her courage again and willingly climbed up to the base of the Great Wall of Warmth. 

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While we were climbing up there, Janet was taking some photos of those who were already up there, like Latana and her lovely mule Lilly.

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And Karen A., Marsha, and Karen R.

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And my buddy Kendra and Apache’s BFF, Bailey Boy.

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And soon Apache and I were up on the narrow trail and joined them.

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See what I mean by narrow trail?

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But Apache was phenomenal!

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And finally 7 of us were all lined up on that narrow trail at the base of the Great Wall of Warmth for our photo shot, while Janet and Casteel took the photos.

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Our Cowgirl Weekend Spring Fling to San Lorenzo Canyon was a total blast! After our ride in San Lorenzo Canyon, we came back for a BBQ and some partying fun at my friend Kendra’s ranch in the mountains. (From left to right) Casteel, Annette, Karen R, Kendra, Marsha, and Latana.

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And my contribution to that evening’s meal was a tray of S’Mores Pudding Shots, made with Fluffed Marshmallow Vodka! Mmmmm!

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But our weekend wasn’t over quite yet. We still had Sunday’s ride the next day, and that would be quite the adventure!



14 comments :

Anonymous said...

I know exactly what you mean about the comments - I also get a lot fewer now. Some topics seem to draw a lot of comments; many topics don't. I'm one of your lurkers - I always enjoy your wonderful posts with lots of spectacular pictures. The special relationship, and trust, you have with your Apache mare is an inspiration to us all.

Keechy said...

I've only been following since some time after you got Apache. I don't think it is enjoying someone's suffering. I think if someone has problems and you feel you have some experience that can help you feel like you should post a comment if it can maybe be of benefit. Other times it doesn't feel necessary, but I do come here to watch you ride your lovely girl and see the great rides you go on and be jealous of the amazing country you ride through that is so different to my aussie rides. :) I can see how people never commenting can be annoying or creepy. I just hadn't thought I had anything valuable to say and thought in that case you just didn't. I'll do better. :)

Nuzzling Muzzles said...

I think the difference between comments and no comments is just that if you have a story to tell, people will comment, but if you have a post that reads like a scrapbook, there's nothing to say, and we just enjoy the pictures.

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Dreaming said...

I am one of those who stops by to read and often I don't comment. But, for me at least, it isn't because I'm disappointed that there isn't some sort of drama going on. I don't comment because life is good for you. All seems wonderful. I enjoy reading about your adventures.
And... I would have been one of those watching you go up the platform... looks pretty scary even from the safety of my chair!

Andrea -Mustang Saga said...

I know I get lazy about comments when I'm busy. Heck, I'm lazy about them even when I'm not busy. Kind of like your reason for blogging, my reason for reading blogs is for my own enjoyment, and if I don't feel like commenting, I don't. Especially when it's just something short like, "That looks like fun!"

People do tend to comment more when you ask questions or advice, or write about something they've have an experience with. I think it's because you've inspired them into a dialog, which seems like a good thing to me.

But your ride does look like it was fun! I love the weird landscape.

Dan and Betty said...

Did you learn how to make those smores in Girl Scouts?

Dan

Terra said...

Like you, I write for myself and find I get lots of upbeat comments. This is my first visit here and what do I find - breathtaking scenes, powerful horses and happy women. Keep on riding.

The Dancing Donkey said...

I kind of think your comments have dropped off not because people are only interested in drama, in giving unasked for advice or because they are disappointed that you are happy, but because of what you said yourself. You are writing this blog for yourself and for the friends you are riding with and that comes through in your writing. It does not seem to invite or need much comment other than the occasional 'congratulations' or 'you go girl!'.

It is certainly true that when there is something intense going on, people get drawn into the story more and comment more. It doesn't mean that no one cares about the happy stuff. I just know that, for myself, your blog does feel like a personal journal and commenting on it seems almost intrusive at times. I enjoy seeing some of the scenery in your area and what other people are doing with their horses. I wish I was able to get out and ride even half as much as you do. However, I also don't want to butt into your journal, so I visit but don't comment much.

I think that is part of the beauty of a blog. It is a very personal thing that can be whatever anyone wants it to be. Mine has become a creative outlet for me and if I choose to write 'cutsey' posts, or about hoof trimming or whatever I feel like, it is because it is my blog and I can do what I want with it. Mine has become a creative outlet for me and a way to experiment with different types of writing. I am still blogging for myself, just as much as you are. As all bloggers are.

I hope that you continue to enjoy your beautiful Apache, the friends you have made and the great rides you are doing. If you choose to share some of that in a blog, I think that is great as well. So...you go girl!

Laughing Orca Ranch said...

Story,

Here ya go girlfriend! Enjoy!

S'mores Pudding Shots
PREP TIME: 15 minutes
INGREDIENTS:
~ 1 (3 1/2 ounce) package instant chocolate pudding mix
(Or you cheat like I did and just pick up about 6-8 packages of the Snack size pudding cups)
~ 3/4 cup 2% milk
~ 1/2 cup Fluffed Marshmallow Vodka (I added a little extra!!)
~ 8 ounces Cool Whip
~1/4 cup graham cracker crumbs
~Jar of Marshmallow Fluff
~2-3 Hershey's Milk Chocolate Bars

DIRECTIONS:
1. In a large bowl, whisk together the chocolate pudding mix and milk until thick and smooth.
Add in the vodka whisking until the mixture is free of lumps and well-combined. Fold in the Cool Whip
and mix until no white streaks are visible. Set Aside.

2. Spoon 1 1/2 teaspoons of graham cracker crumbs into the bottom of each mini cordial glass. (I didn't measure. I just covered the bottom of each cup with about a 1/4" of crumbs)

3. Place the pudding mixture into a piping bag fitted with a round tip, or simply snip the corner of a zip lock bag. Pipe the pudding mixture using a swirl motion into each
glass stopping about 1/2 inch before the rim of glass. (I just spooned the pudding in...much faster!)

4. Spoon or pipe the Marshmallow Fluff directly onto the pudding mixture.
If desired, use a kitchen torch to carefully brown the Marshmallow Fluff and garnish with a piece of
the Hershey's Milk Chocolate Bar.

NOTES:
~ The plastic "shot glasses" I used yielded 15 servings. I picked mine up from Kroger in the paper plate aisle.


~Lisa

Laughing Orca Ranch said...

I can see how folks might feel they don't need to comment, or they feel intrusive by commenting on someone's personal journal, Makes sense to me. But on the other hand, if someone posts publicly, they are giving people the opportunity to comment and visit and read their post, too.
I'm not offended by anyone's opinion, because like I said, this is my blog and I'm choosing how I want to post. And visitors to my blog can choose whether they want to comment or not.
I have no intention of changing my format, creating dialogues (unless I am inspired to do so), or catering to anyone else's idea of how my blog should be written. That's just the way it is.
I will continue to create 'scrapbook-style' posts because that's what I enjoy. And I will never reduce the amount of photos I post, because photography and horseback riding are two passions I have had for years and they are who I am, and ultimately they make me happy...and my real-life friends and my family enjoy them as much as I do.

So there ya go. I'm thankful for the comments, and I appreciate y'all stopping by. And if you feel called to comment on future posts, terrific! If not, that's fine by me, too. :)

Happy Trails!
~Lisa

DesertHen said...

Another wonderful post about yet another great adventure! Lisa, the vistas and views in this post are Amazing! I love that you share your rides with us! I'm so happy for you that you are experiencing your passion and doing so with a wonderful group of friends!

I totally understand how you feel about blogging and comments. I really never had many followers when I started blogging and I still don't have many now. I started blogging for myself and so family could keep up with our busy lives. I love it when someone takes the time to leave a comment for me. Makes me smile! I appreciate your comments when you come by as they are always thoughtful and encouraging!

Those S'mores pudding shots look wonderful! Thank you for posting the recipe in the comments! =)

Can't wait to hear what happened on the second part of this ride!

Strawberry Lane said...

Your photographs are fantastic ... like having a wonderful tour. But I must say, your riding adventures are a bit on the heroic side. I admire all of you! Apache is just amazing. What a great horse.

Reddunappy said...

I tend to think of my regular bloggers as distant friends!

I enjoy your posts and as I usually tell you am a little envious! LOL LOL