Busy horse day today. It started off with Baby Doll’s farrier appt. When I was riding my mare several times a week, her feet didn’t need trimmed as often. Now, with her just standing around all day, eating and pooping, her feet don’t get much wear, except from the rocks and boulders in her paddock, which end up causing nicks, instead of even wear. She did pretty well for the farrier, except for one moment when she got impatient and tried to pull some funny business. But my farrier got on her quick and didn’t let her get away with it. He’s very kind and patient, but he also doesn’t put up with any crap from horses that should know better. Afterwards, Baby Doll behaved herself for the rest of her trim, but when he was done, instead of normally hanging around for treats and pets, she turned her butt to us and walked to the other end of her paddock. Talk about attitude.
Between her grouchy attitude and the fact that I had someone coming over to ride Baby Doll later in the afternoon, I decided I’d do some ground work with her in the round pen. This was the first time I’ve worked with her since she hurt me the second time, and I was very cautious, and a little bit nervous.
First, I decided to give her a wake-up call with her earlier rude behavior and walked down to the end of the paddock, towards my neighbor’s barn where she was also standing along the fence line. I truly think she thought I was bringing snack service as she took a few steps towards me. But I ignored her, turned my back to her, and reached over the fence and called to Nadia, Val’s Arabian mare. She came over to me and I rewarded her with cookies and pets, while Baby Doll licked and chewed behind me. I could hear her and sense her there, not sure exactly what she was thinking. But she was thinking.
I gave all my cookies to Nadia, as Baby Doll watched. Then I reached over the fence and gave Nadia pets and scratches. That seemed to be too much for my mare and she nuzzled my arm, head and hands, and kept positioning herself around me so that I might get the idea to turn around and give her pets and scratches, too. I gave her a few butt scratches, which are her favorite, but I didn’t linger and kept her wanting more. I moved away from her and she stepped closer towards me, her head lowered, but then her head came up and bonked the pipe rail fence and she threw her head up….and I got a sick panicked feeling and just wanted to escape. I could hardly breathe and tears were flowing as I left as quickly as I could.
Baby Doll started to follow me, but she stopped when she realized I wasn’t slowing down or calling to her. I sat up in the barn for about 10 minutes and cried like a baby. And then I just breathed deep for a few minutes until I was calm and cowgirled up.
I grabbed the halter and lead rope and went back out to my mare’s paddock. She walked up to me, poked her head into the halter and she was really well behaved during the entire journey down the hill and over to the round pen. She didn’t even get bossy or try to test me when I growled ‘NO’ at her efforts at trying to steal bites of grass as we walked.
I free-lunged her in the round pen for about 15 minutes, and followed up using the lunge rope for another 15 minutes. She did better free-lunging.. On the lunge rope she got lazy and didn’t want to move faster than a walk or a half-hearted trot. I know she is totally taking advantage of me because she can see that I still can’t move fast to get after her, and that is very frustrating. But I was pleased that she did join-up with me, when I invited her in. And then we did a little bit of bending and side-pass work on the ground and afterwards she walked with me at liberty, until I released her to graze on the stubbly grass.
I walked back to the house for a cold drink and sat in the coop to relax and commune with the chickens. (A Silver-laced Wyandotte hen and Barred Rock hens)
(Speckled Sussex hen~’Kipper’)
(Japanese Silky Roo~ ‘Mr. Cotton’)
(A little gathering pecking at some fresh grass clippings)
(And my fancy rooster, ‘Sid Vicious’, a Golden-laced, bearded Polish)
(So far he’s a pretty good rooster. He’s kind to the ladies and respects me, even though I can’t say that he really likes me being around his ladies. He does tolerate me. And he even gets along well with his rooster buddy, Mr. Cotton.)
(This picture is for Carolynn of a Glowing Ember, who dreams of living in the South of France and owning her very own rooster)
Then the girls showed up to ride Baby Doll. First the older girl rode my mare bareback in a halter. I don’t think she liked how heavy in the front Baby Doll can be when she starts off at the trot, though. But she rode her for a few minutes bareback and then I went and got the bridle and saddle. The younger girl was already in love with my mare and couldn’t wait to ride her. She wants a barrelracer, 4H, Gymkhana horse but her two older, smaller horses at home aren’t able to do the things she wants to do.
The younger girl rode on a lunge line to start off with, until she felt comfortable. It was a very windy day and Baby Doll had already spooked sideways when my neighbor’s trash can blew over on the road, but the girl rode her right through it. (unlike me. lol)
It was really nice to hear from these girls how pretty they thought Baby Doll was and how powerful, fast, sensitive she is, and how easy and sharp she turns. She is a good horse, just a little too much horse for me.They were really gentle, yet firm and confidant with my mare, too. No pulled tail and mane, and even when Baby Doll balked a little at taking the bit, they worked with her calmly until she took it.
After only a few minutes on the lunge line, the younger girl felt confidant enough to ride Baby Doll on her own, and it was great to watch how at ease she was on a horse’s back. I was also impressed at how well she posted the trot and rode the lope like she was glued to the seat. (Oh to be young again and learn to ride with such confidence, balance and skill)
Of course, Baby Doll made sure not to let things get too boring.
Both girls took it all in stride, though, and seemed unfazed. Though they aren’t able to buy Baby Doll right now, they would like to ride her again. I’ve taken a new stance on this, too. It’s still a win-win because someone is having fun on Baby Doll and my mare is getting ridden and receiving a work-out. I didn’t take many photos while the younger girl was loping Baby Doll, because they both looked to be enjoying themselves. I was told Baby Doll ran barrels before I bought her and I had seen her running them once while she was at my lesson barn. She was fast! But since I’ve owned her, it was hard for me to imagine her as a barrel horse, as she is such a lazy girl, and acts pissy when you make her move faster than a trot.
But I have to admit, even with those ears of hers pinned back while she was being loped, Baby Doll did seem to enjoy herself, if even just a little bit. It looked like, if she would have been given more rein, that she would have went all out galloping.
After they left, I was so tired. What a busy day. Just like Phyllis Diller, my Buff-laced Polish hen says, “It’s time to hit the roost”.
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30 comments :
I am so happy to see you were able to get out with BD and do some work with her!
How old were the girls that came out and rode her? They look like they knew how to ride. Were they thinking of leasing her or buying her?
I just love Sid Vicious! He has to be the most gorgeous rooster I have ever seen!
Great to see pix of your beautiful chickens again! It's been awhile!
I was glued to every word Lisa! Wonderful pictures and entry!
#1 Glad you cowgirled up and just DID it. It sucks to be fearful and middle-aged, but you did it! See? What did I tell you? You are going to be okay!
#2 That's great that you found some younger blood who can ride her and who still bounce if they come off!
WV = equinfe
I don't even know, but it sounds interesting!
Good for you Lisa! I know how scary it must be. I have had the "fear factor" as an adult and know it can be as paralyzing!
Your chickens are so colorful and beautiful!
Great story! I'm glad you went back and lunged her. I LOVE your chickens! Sounds like the girls enjoyed your horse.
Sounds like a good pair of riders for BD. Much better vibes on this end of the 'net! The way you write it, it sounds like they are a better match for BD than you were. Maybe it will be easier to say goodbye--if that's what it comes to--after seeing her ridden by the right person.
No mane and tail pulling, huh? See, it was a good angel that made that other woman not call you back.
Can't see your pics at work, but am looking forward to some groovy chicken bliss when I get home!
The sky in all of your pictures is incredible! Always enjoy your pictures.
The gal in these photos looked a lot experienced than the gal a few days ago. Like red flags you pointed out re the other rider (the pad, the brushing) would have been big red flags to me. In one of the pics, she was holding the reins with her hands down - hard to describe - even harder to do. Looked uncomfortable. Anyway, much better report with these gals.
whether or not you sell, lease, or keep Baby Doll, you are making progress with her. You managed to go in and work with her in spite of your fear. That's good! If John is available, have him come out and do the work while you instruct him what to do. I can help too.
Baby Doll just needs to get ridden more often to break that sour attitude she's got. Having anyone ride her is a good thing.
I love your chickens! Those photos are drop dead gorgeous!!
Lisa, I too like the photos of these girls better than the previous rider. They are much softer in the body while on her, even when she's sticking her nose in the air, which I think is good.
And if they seem to be really loving her, all the better. I think she needs someone who wants to be with her and doesn't react when she spooks or isn't her best self.
Good for you for getting out there and working with her - it sounds like you needed to do that for YOU, and if you end up selling Baby Doll, it will be good to have things resolved between you before she goes.
As always, I love all the photos of the chickens - such unique individuals and so lovely!!
I'm so glad that you went in the pen with BabyDoll and did some work with her. Please don't think this wrong of me but after Baby Doll finds the right home for her, I can't wait to see pictures of you and the bond you'll establish with the long-awaited love of your life. I wish I was there to help you find the right horse. Please, please don't give up on that.
Wow, you packed alot into this post. :o)
First of all, good for you for sucking it up and getting back out there with Baby Doll. It sounds like you were having an anxiety attack and you should acknowledge yourself for getting through it and facing your fear. Yay!
I literally laughed out loud when I saw my name next to Sid's. You know I love that guy! He's the coolest rooster, bar none. Phyllis is pretty adorable too, I must say.
I think it's a great solution, having those girls ride Baby Doll. It sounds like they'll be good for each other and everyone will have some fun.
*Hugs*
Carolynn
Good for you that you got out there and Cowgirled Up! I like the photos of this rider so much better than the last one. Who knows, maybe this will work out for you.
Good for you to get your big girl panties on and just get out there and work with BD. You go girl.
I love your chickens, Sid is so cool ! If I ever have a rooster that is Vicious, he would be in the freezer!
Let me know when yu uwant to come to ORegon for some r and r.
I have a horse you ucan ride that his favorite speed is walk.
You have such a beautiful sky there.
~lytha
My first year after the accident, I got Arwen a jockey and let her have fun at the racetrack. Although I couldn't ride for a long time to come, I remember how precious it was for me to be able to watch work. This sounded like a very good match, Lisa. I'm hoping for it!!
My first year after the accident, I got Arwen a jockey and let her have fun at the racetrack. Although I couldn't ride for a long time to come, I remember how precious it was for me to be able to watch work. This sounded like a very good match, Lisa. I'm hoping for it!!
These buyers look promising. They seem to know what they are doing. Are you having potential buyers sign a release of liability in case anything happens? I think most people who have been around horses a while know it is at their own risk, but I worry you might get some lookie loos who know nothing and might hurt themselves and try to blame you.
I'm sure this is a hard situation, I feel so badly for you.
Good for you to get back out there and work with her. Good luck, with whatever you decide is right for her and yourself.
LOVE your chicken/rooster photos !
Man she looks crabby with those ears all pinned back, but I have know horses that did that regardless if they were having a good time or a bad time. So maybe she is one of those.
Barrel racer huh? I am having a hard time seeing that too - but I have seen stranger things.
LOL...I am seconding (is that even a word??) Stephanie's comment about BD looking like a crab. She is a beautiful girl, and it's too bad that she has such a sour attitude; although I realize that she is not that way all of the time. :)
These girls sound like they may be a good fit for her. Are they considering a lease?
Finally, your chickens are beautiful, and you take very good pictures of them. :) I also think that Carolynn needs to get Sid's French cousin when she moves to her cottage/villa. That way, they can communicate via blogging...lol!!!
PS-Good for you to get out there and show that mare who the boss is!!! We all knew you had it in you! :)
You'll be a better horsewoman when this is all done. Pushing through fear is powerful - and not for the faint of heart. Proud of you.
Winter aka Breathe
Everytime you write about the antics of BabyDoll, it so reminds me of our American Paint mares, Apache and Comanche. I loved 'em dearly but they were too much for me unfortunately. My husband is an experienced rider and he admitted they were too much for a beginner like me. I'm glad the young girls enjoyed riding her.
great photos and post lisa. enjoyed every thing. the chickens are great...beautiful shots of them.
many hugs and good wishes always.
I agree with many of the other commentators:
* these young riders are a much better fit for BD. I was worried about the other lady, she seemed to know just enough to get into trouble...
* you were brave to go work with her. Now, give yourself permission to define the point at which you have been brave ENOUGH, and then it will be okay to move on and do something else. Maybe do this before you get hurt again.
* at some point you will find a horse that will suit you better and you will heave a gigantic sigh every time you walk into the barn without fear. On that day, we will all raise our hands and holler "Halla-luya!"
* There is nothing as restful as a bunch of Barred Rock hens. I'm pretty sure scientific research will support this.
laughing all the way, AareneX
One step at a time. Well done.
Dan
That's so great you took the first step! And you were FINE! See? Haha.
That is awesome that you found some other girls to ride Baby Doll for you, and maybe if they can work some more sense into her, and you feel more confident about it, maybe you could even get on her again! Don't go too fast though. Remember one step at a time.
Good for you getting out there again!
When I took lessons I was amazed by the skilled and fearless little girls I rode with. Something about little girls and horses, being young and flexible, and not knowing how much it hurts to get hurt! Sounds like you might have found a good match :)
Applejack is pretty slow and lazy too, until he hits the barrels. lol
Proud of you girl...what a pissyface on that mare..only to be rivaled by Wa's pissy mare face.
The gal is staring at her and that is something Wa hates...it makes you lean to her forhand as well and that she probably dislikes!
Well, progress is nye!
XO Kac
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